
Tuesday night, the Unified School District in Alameda, a suburb near San Francisco and Oakland, adopted a new curriculum that addresses bullying, acceptance, and respect. While this doesn’t sound too controversial at first, some parents are enraged that this new curriculum includes a mandatory 45 minute discussion each year about lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered issues. Kindergarten students will discuss teasing and its harms, as well as read the controversial children’s book, “And Tango Makes Three.” Fifth graders will discuss sexual orientation stereotypes.
Overall, parents voicing concerns seem to be upset over the mature topic being discussed, arguing that children are too young to learn about such adult issues. Additionally, parents are upset that they cannot choose to keep their children from participating. The school defends its new curriculum, stating that there has been an increase in young children using derogatory words such as “fag.” The school also states that this is a way to stop the schoolyard bullying before it starts.
Overall, this situation tackles that tricky issue of “protection.” Are parents correct in arguing that children need to be protected from discussing such mature issues? Is the school correct in arguing that children being bullied as a result of their own or their parents’ sexual orientation need protection from intolerant students? Can both parties be right?
While I live my life very conservatively, I am admittedly very liberal when it comes to protecting the rights and liberties of others. I also do not have children—and thus, my opinions could be different once I become a parent. That being said, I think it is never too soon to teach acceptance. School should be a welcoming place where all can learn. If students are being teased for any reason, the school needs to take action. Moreover, if young children are using such derogatory words and picking on others because of sexual orientation, then these taunting children do not need to be protected from such issues. They are obviously aware—now they just need to be educated.
